Menstruation & Newsweek!

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DeAnna L’am wrote a fabulous blog post about the Newsweek article on menstruation.

Catch it here, it is a good one!   When Newsweek Met Menstruation by DeAnna L’am

DeAnna L’am – Bio:

Fondly known as ‘Womb Visionary’, DeAnna’s work has been transforming women’s lives around the world for over 25 years. She holds Initiation ceremonies for women and girls, reveals the spiritual forces hidden in Menstruation and Menopause, and teaches women how to hold Red Tents in their communities.

Internationally recognized as a pioneer in Menstrual Empowerment, DeAnna is author of‘Becoming Peers – Mentoring Girls Into Womanhood’ and ‘A Diva’s Guide to Getting Your Period’. She is founder of Red Moon School of Empowerment for Women & Girls™ and of Red Tents In Every Neighborhood – Global Movement. Visit her at: www.deannalam.com

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Menopausal Wisdom for Women

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Have you heard of the PURPLE TENT yet?

This is a new, visionary space, birthed by my colleague DeAnna L’am,

as a place for our Wisdom Years! This is the NEXT STEP after the Red Tent…

During our bleeding years we develop many habits.

We become used to being who we are in the world.

We develop an identity, a direction, a sense of Self.

Menopause will Strip off any Superfluous Habits.

It will Question your Convictions.

It will Shake your sense of Self.

DeAnna, founder of Red Tents In Every Neighborhood,went through a deeply meaningful preparation for Menopause. She walked through the Gateway, and developed tools & consciousness, which you will deeply benefit from learning.

DeAnna is offering an Online PURPLE TENT class where you will learn how to:

• Create a ROAD MAP for your WISDOM YEARS

• LIBERATE yourself from limiting habits

• Create your Ceremony

• Step into Leadership

• Become the Wisdom Goddess OF YOUR LIFE!

  • If Menopause is on the Horizon – this is for you! It’s time to PREPARE
  • If you are on the Menopausal Road – this is DEFINITELY for you! It’s time to PRACTICE
  • If you are No Longer Bleeding – this is Your REALM – It’s time to TAKE your PLACE as A WISE WOMAN!

I encourage and urge you to take your place in the PURPLE TENT!

Click Here to read more and sign up:  http://www.profcs.com/app/?af=1646764

P.S. – PLEASE Help us Spread the Word – Send this link to all your women friends, share with them this brand new Visionary Realm: http://www.profcs.com/app/?af=1646764

Moon Blessings!

 

Red Tent Summit 2016!

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In the last decade – women have been awakening to the sacredness of our blood…

 

The time has come to look at our WISDOM YEARS:

What Defines Us as Women when we No Longer Bleed?

 

Join me, an array of wise women, and host DeAnna L’am, FREELY — on the 3rd Annual

Red Tents In Every Neighborhood – Global Summit:

Freedom in Our Wisdom Years

 

Prepare the journey toward menopause, through it, and beyond it,

learn to embody your wisdom in full freedom and joy –

from the comfort of your home, in community with thousands of women around the world!

 

You will receive one video every week-daystarting February 1st.

Each video features one luminary, fierce, leading woman

answering Womb Questions with insight, passion, and heart –

and I am honored to be one of them.

 

Join us this Red Feast – Freely!  

Click Here to Reserve your FREE Spot Now!

Celebrate Our Wisdom Years

Females entering their Menopausal Wisdom Years are in a beautiful energetic space. We have gathered the wisdom of our years as menstruating and creative women: some of us creating into motherhood; some of us creating art, social change, books, you name it; and some of us doing both and more!

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Join DeAnna L’Am’s 3rd Annual

Red Tents in Every Neighborhood – Global Summit:

Freedom in Our Wisdom Years

Enjoy and be inspired by daily 3-5 minute videos from women around the world sharing their wisdom, energy, and insights on being female in these empowering times.

It is FREE!  Share Widely & Wildly with all of your female friends                   (males too who love being inspired by female wisdom!)

Click HERE for our inspirational line up of amazing females & Reserve your Free Spot Now!

Blessings on our journeys as women!  Paula

Raising Daughters in the Red Tent

Raising Daughters in the Red Tent

Stefanie Miosga

Dresden, Germany

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Check out Stefanie on her German website, Google will translate! http://www.roteszelt.de/uumlber-mich.html

One of the biggest driving factors for me to work in the red tent movement is the fact that I have three young daughters. I want to contribute to their puberty, menarche, and budding femininity being reasons for joyful, excited anticipation. Our generation plays a wonderful part in that: we are the bridge, it is in our hands to initiate the transformation of femininity from shame to a power source.

It was two years ago that my mother took me aside. When two of my daughters were staying with my parents, my mother found one of my cloth pads. It must have slipped into the kids’ clothing after washing. She told me I had to be more careful and that it didn’t do that my kids noticed something like that. When my father entered the room, she even sent him out, as if we were talking about something illegal.

At that time I had only just heard of red tents on the internet. It dawned on me that, as long as women like her, after raising daughters and finishing their fertile years themselves, and are still so ashamed about something like cloth pads, our world is in desperate need of this work!

A while back, my oldest daughter (she’s almost 10) asked me loudly in the crowded school yard: “Mama, do you have a monthly bleeding?“ She had browsed through her science school book and her curiosity was aroused. Her 7 year-old sister was with us and all ears.

Thanks to DeAnna L’am’s wonderful Diva’s Guide to getting your Period, for young girls, which I translated into German last year (“Tanz mit dem Mond“, available in the shop at my website), I had a beautiful, sincere and pleasant explanation for the girls at my hands. Just like birds build a nest before laying their eggs, so our womb builds a nest out of uterus lining, for when a baby starts to grow there. If we don’t conceive, we shed the lining mixed with blood, which results in menstruation. We were not embarrassed. I didn’t embellish anything nor did I tell horror stories. All was clear; the girls were content. They asked what a woman is doing with the blood and I told them briefly about cloth pads vs. disposable pads.

Back when I got my first period, I was “informed” that this will happen because I have an older sister. Still, I didn’t dare tell my mother about it.  When she found out, it was an embarrassing, bleak affair when we talked about periods for almost the only time ever.

I hardly believe that my mother was welcomed into womanhood by her own mother, so how was she supposed to do things differently with her daughters? How was she supposed to know that there was another way? It wasn’t talked about, period (pun intended). Had I asked a question like my daughter did in public, I would probably have been silenced, and later we wouldn’t have talked about it either.

If we want to create a more open environment for our daughters, it is important to start with ourselves. How many of us carry around handed-down taboos, think of their menstruation as a curse and a burden, to only look forward to menopause because of the promise of no more bleeding, and would rather die than talk to anybody about periods?

The good news is: We can still recognize, honour, and welcome the girl we were at our menarche into womanhood today. We can give that to ourselves and each other. We need the company of other women to break the taboos, to celebrate our femininity, to honour, and give each other space to be ourselves.

We can call into being red tents, moon lodges, temple groups, or however we want to call our women’s circles. There we get in touch with our own womanhood. Let’s also bring our adolescent daughters into the groups, their energy gives us at least as much as the wisdom of age gives to them! Our smart daughters won’t buy make-believe joy about their first period from us and don’t suddenly feel like a real woman, as long as we can’t honestly model to them that being a woman is a thing of power, beauty and dignity.

As we heal ourselves, we heal the next generation, healing half of the world’s population one woman at a time.  This healed half radiates healing to the other half!  Ambitious? Yes, and it works when we start with ourselves.

Thank you Stefanie for sharing your story, your journey, a journey many of us lived as well.  I am raising 2 beautiful male souls.  They have always known what my moon cycle is.  Kids ask questions.  Kids hang out with mom in the bathroom (along with the cats, and the dog…).  I never excluded them because I was “bleeding” and they should not know, see, be aware.  They know and they will, hopefully, be better men prepared to embrace strong, powerful, divine women who are thrilled with their feminine energy and cycle!

Red Tent Summit

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My desire to start this blog was inspired by feminine energy and the Red Tent Summit: http://www.deannalam.com/summit-3/

Day one was Brook Medicine Eagle’s words of wisdom around female energy and the red tent, day 2 brought us Susun Weed’s wisdom….

I encourage you to sign up and catch the whole month’s worth of wise women from around the globe sharing their thoughts on life with a red tent in the neighborhood.

I plan to use this blog to share my thoughts and ideas, my wisdom and experience around issues important to women’s health care, real woman centered health care…. women caring for women in matriarchal ways.  As a woman with three decades of experience in women’s holistic health care, I wish to share my wise woman’s ways.  (See my About page.)

BC pills

ablation

natural birth control

sacred female energy

PMS

menopause

Libido or lack of as we age

circumcision

natural menstrual products and care

herbs for every phase of our feminine energy

c-sections

natural child birth

nursing

whole food feeding kids, self, and family

hysterectomy

mastectomy

the list goes on & on…….. May your feminine energy flow and shine like the divine female you are!

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